If you want your life to increase, if you want your life to get better, then you need to help improve somebody else's life. If you will help somebody else become successful, God will make sure that you are successful. Don't just obsess about how you can make your own life better. Think about how you can make somebody else's life better as well. You have something to offer that nobody else can give. God puts people in our lives on purpose so we can help them succeed and help them become all He created them to be. The bible says that love is kind, love looks for ways to help improve somebody else's life.
Be a giver and not a taker